Time and tide wait
for no one, and, once again, the wheels of time have moved forward, bringing us
31 years since we lost an amazing and talented actor. It’s sadly ironic that, two years ago, in
2012, I was composing a memorial post for Simon while still reeling from two
additional celebrity deaths that year---Davy Jones and Richard Dawson, and now,
in 2014, once again, two additional celebrity deaths are in my immediate
consciousness. Ladybug already spoke
about James Garner, who Simon acted alongside in The Rockford Files; she’s already discussed that very
eloquently. The two recently passed I am
referring to are Casey Kasem and Robin Williams, both of whom had prominent
roles in my childhood---a sentiment which, I am sure, many others can relate
to. Both deaths led to a massive
outpouring of love and support and tears from fans; everything from fanarts and
fanfics of the characters they brought to life to just general appreciation
posts filled the internet---exactly what Ladybug and I have been doing for
Simon since we realized just how much he meant to both of us.
A celebrity’s
passing can be jarring; if an actor’s role reaches you in a way that you never
forget, of course, you’ll feel sad at losing them. But what if they were gone before you even
heard of them---before you were even born?
There’s no shock moment, save for the moment you check their biography
and realize, “Oh… they’re gone.”
Ladybug and I had
that moment with Simon of course, with each of us discovering this wonderful
character actor, only to be followed with disappointment that he had passed
before either of us had been born. It is
disappointing, no doubt about that---disappointing that we can’t send him fan
mail to let him know that his “trick” (as he called it) of creating
multifaceted characters worked, and that we can’t help but marvel at them all---from
the despicable Mel Barnes, to the unearthly Empyrian, to the loveable Tony
Vincenzo.
Those characters
intrigued us, and made us feel things.
We wanted to see Mel Barnes
get his comeuppance. We wanted to believe Jim Nation was telling
the truth, and we cheered when he proved his character. And we wanted
to see Tony’s reaction to Carl’s latest monster story. And that certainly says something about an
actor who is able to make people feel things even 31 years after his
death. I have no doubt in saying that
Simon’s characters will continue to live on, just as Casey and Robin’s are sure
to, as well.
That “Oh… they’re gone” feeling is a terrible
one, no doubt. But what helps in dealing
with it is that while the actors are gone, their characters are not. And when those characters live on---when they
still find a way to reach us---it means that an actor has, in a sense, achieved
immortality. Even 31 years later,
Simon’s trick of giving characters hidden depths is still working---Ladybug and
I noticed, and it’s not even just us. Just
yesterday, TVLand aired “The Clarion” episode of Bonanza, the third of Simon’s guest appearances on that show
(purely a coincidence that they happened to air it on Simon’s birthday, but a
great coincidence, indeed), earlier this week, Encore Western aired the
“Miguel’s Daughter” episode of Gunsmoke,
and TCM always seems to have at least one of Simon’s movies listed in their
“Upcoming Titles” if you go to his TCM profile---all of which serve as a
testimony to the longevity of his many and varied characters. They’re still relevant. They still make us feel things. And no matter how enamored I get with other
fandoms and actors, and no matter how hard Patrick Troughton tries to run off
with my heart, there’ll always be one heartstring that leads back to Simon’s
hand, ready to give a little tug to remind me.
The wheels of time
will continue to turn, but the name of Simon Oakland will never be forgotten.
~Crystal Rose